anger=bad

i believe that after seeing the topic of my blog all of you will know what i will be blogging about today. anger is an emotion that all of us experience in our lives and sometimes, and sometimes we will not consider about the consequences when we are angry and we will regret after doing it. today i will be talking about the bad points of anger.

few days before my brother did something that got me on my nerves. i was very angry, and my anger got the better of me and i was blinded by my anger. i did not care about the consequences, and i went over grabbed his hands, and i did consider about giving him a punch. however i got rid of that intention and i just slammed his hands, and i walked away. however i was conscientious that he was uttering something behind my back when i was walking away. i did not care. after that when i returned back to my seat i realised that what i did was too rash and i regretted doing it. i gritted my teeth and i scolded myself for letting my anger get the better of me. after that when i got back to see my brother i saw him consoling his hands. i felt sorry for him. i told myself that whatever happens in the future i would not take it out on him and i shall think of other solutions to the problem. however, who knows, in the future i may do the same thing as i dd to him just now? thus anger is such a bad thing because it is like a laser. once you get shot by it you will be blinded and you do not know what you will do. after that when you recover from it you will look at the mess you are in and start regretting.

i believe that many of you people always let your anger get the better of you and you will vent your anger on people or things, and after that you regret it, for doing harm to yourself or to the person. i heard my form teacher, mr eddie lau talk about it in class. when he was in a quarrel with his wife, obviously he wouldn't hit his wife but instead, he will take it out on the wall. he would punch the wall with all his mights, and then he will try and "console" his hands later, and he himself said that it was a bad thing to do. by punching the wall with your fists, you will cause harm to your knuckles and do you expect to just keep hitting the wall with your fists everytime you get into a quarrel with your wife? do you think that it is a smart way to deal with it?

a smart way to deal with anger is to walk away. yes, and this is a point in which my teacher taught us to do. by walking away from the scene of argument you will not be able to see the person which caused irritant to you, and you will not use any forms of violence, be it verbal violence or physical violence. my friends suggested closing your eyes. i think that it is also feasible because by closing our eyes, we will not be able to look at the scene in which the argument took place and you will have time to cool down and think of a good solution to the problem.

hence i have come to an end of my post today. comments will be greatly appreciated. thank you and goodbye.